Do More

of what makes you Happy

I should make my own happiness list kan. Focus on the positive not the negative. I believe it is a constant effort to do this but i should start somewhere :)

Family

Sure, they fight a lot, but to know that there's always somebody there, somebody that's family - Trey Parker

Yup. Family is on my happiness list. Being with them is priceless. Its like coming back home to the safest place on earth. No judgement, No question ask. Just Acceptance. 

At my current phase of life, its easy for people to judge me. Ya lah. In a perfect definition of happiness - I should be married, have kids and be fabulous working mom and wife. But I'm grateful with my imperfect life. I'm gonna live my life and cherish every moment of it, good, bad and everything in between :)

When granny was sick, Mom was there every moment of it, gives everything that she can - love, time and money. I will always remember that. There are a lot of difference between visiting and being there. Visiting is just like touch and go. You just there for few hours or day and then go. Being there is like everything. Thank you mom for the lesson. 

Travel

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain

This year (I hope) gonna be my exploration year. I will somehow find my way. Gonna save my hard earn cash for this. Be it solo or with friends I'm gonna make it happen. If not now then when? Life is short and sometime hard, do what matter the most, do things that makes you happy :)

Work

Jangan Jadi Lembik - Firefly

It's gonna be a tough year ahead. Gonna put my thick face, brave my heart and focus on work not things in between the work. Work pays my bills and travel. I should always remember that. Don't compare, don't complain too much, just be grateful. 

Its timely for me to change my work habit. At times i believe i make things more difficult. I realised that i have wasted my precious time and energy with anger, dissatisfaction and talking. I can be more efficient by focusing on work related only. Say NO to bitching, whining and office politics. Like I said - Jangan Jadi Lembik :)

Do Good Anyway

Don't judge my journey until you've walked my path - Anonymous

Its easy to judge people. To say bad things about people. To say other people is wrong. To make nasty remark without knowing the whole story. We are sometime illogical, unreasonable and self-centered. Admit it. We have different way of life, different agenda and different priority. Some people willing to do nasty stuff behind to safe their ass. Plus if you dealing with money (like me) - people can turns ugly easily. Believe me.

Above all these nasty stuff, do good anyway. Good heart is the answer for all this. Kalau kita pun sama memburukkan, bermakna hati kita pun busuk. Makanya tiada beza mereka dan kita. Pada hari yang sukar, lebih baik berdoa dari menambah burukan orang kan :)

Happy New Year. Hello 2012

Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be - Moses